Joy
“Sometimes your joy is the
source of your smile, but sometimes your smile can be the source of your
joy.”
― Thich Nhat Hanh
― Thich Nhat Hanh
As we continue along our Advent path
we have a chance to examine the paradox of this saying by the Vietnamese
philosopher, Thich Nhat Hanh. We all
know that sometimes we are so filled with joy that we can’t help but
smile. There are those times though when
we don’t feel like smiling, when we don’t feel happy about anything. The very act of smiling is a door through
which we can enter to tap into those moments of wonder, moments of joy, moments
of grace.
Consider Mary’s trip to see her
cousin Elizabeth. The timing was just
after she was told she would become pregnant and bear God’s Son. It must have been an overwhelming experience
for her. Here she was a young teenager
expecting a baby without the niceties of a husband or a formal wedding. She was on the verge of being shamed in her
own village. After all, who would
believe the story that an angel had dropped by and told her of this miraculous
birth? She probably felt her own parents’
disapproval and skepticism. She needed
someone to talk to and her cousin Elizabeth seemed the best choice since they
were close – and Elizabeth was experiencing her own amazing birth story.
Mary
got up and hurried to a city in the Judean highlands. She entered Zechariah’s home and greeted
Elizabeth. When Elizabeth heard Mary’s
greeting, the child leaped in her womb, and Elizabeth was filled with the Holy
Spirit. With a loud voice she blurted
out, “God has blessed you above all women, and he has blessed the child you
carry. Why do I have this honor, that
the mother of my Lord should come to me?”
As soon as I heard your greeting, the baby in my womb jumped for
joy. Happy is she who believed that the
Lord would fulfill the promises made to her.”
The weight of concern overshadowing daily
life – the smile of greeting – the joy overwhelming two women – the wonder of
the holy births.
Thich Nhat Hanh also cautioned
us: If
you are not able to smile, then the world will not have peace.
That seems to be appropriate to us
at this time of year when we long for the birth of the Prince of Peace. We are particularly sensitive to the
continuous conflicts as we wait for Jesus’ coming. Some of those conflicts are manifested in
wars and rumors of wars. Other conflicts
are those that continually erupt in our interactions with one another. We want the security of everyone getting
along with one another. We long for
peace.
Yet we also perpetuate conflict by
our uncompromising attitudes. We are
ever so sure that we are correct in all things.
We want peace by acquiescence to our way of thinking. Sometimes we even become mean-spirited. We become so angry we forget to smile.
Thich Nhat Hanh reminds us of the
power of the smile. A smile can unleash
joy. A smile is the beginning of
peace. And a smile is something we can
manage.
The Dali Lama tells us: A simple smile, that’s the start of opening
your heart and being compassionate to one another.
Mother Teresa said: Let us
always meet another with a smile, for
the smile is the beginning of love.
This Advent season let us open
ourselves to wonder and grace through our practicing the art of the smile.
Grace and
Peace
Rev. Clara
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